Should I do a first look?
Are you unsure if a first look is a good fit for you? It’s traditional for the couple not to see each other before the ceremony, but there is a wave of breaking traditions at weddings that I’m all about... a first look being one of them.
Let’s quickly define what a first look is…
A first look is a private moment shared between a couple as they see each other for the first time on their wedding day. During this time, the couple may choose to share personal vows with one another.
Imagine with me for a minute…
You start the day by getting up at 7am to get ready, and wait until the ceremony (usually 4:30/5pm) to see your partner. All those nerves and emotions being held in for 10 hours! Assuming the schedule is running on time, now it’s 5pm, and you see your partner waiting for you and the whole moment becomes a blur because you’re overwhelmed with emotions. Then let’s say the day is over at 10pm, which gives you only five hours to see your significant other!
Here are some the benefits of doing a first look
Doing a first look (usually between 12-2pm):
makes space for a private and slow moment together.
allows you to deeply feel all your emotions when seeing each other for the first time.
allows for the opportunity to share intimate vows with one another.
gives you additional time to hang out with your partner.
gives you additional time to hang out with your group all together.
makes room in the schedule to do photos (wedding party and/or family) before the ceremony.
gives you one less thing to worry about. You won’t be hiding out in a bedroom for hours trying to avoid seeing one another.
I know, I’m a bit biased…
It’s no secret that I am in favor of doing a first look, it’s what I want for my own wedding! But, what I want for my couples is to do what feels right for them. If your heart is set on seeing each other at the ceremony, then do that! Do what makes the most sense for you and you won’t regret it.
